Teen mom: the impact of having a baby when you're too young

Society has changed a lot, at least more than the way it was in our grandparents memories. It is natural of course, that from time to time things change, but how could it be possible that women continue believing in some men when they obviously have forgotten their responsibilities as parents?

In Latin America, is very common to see single mothers all over the continent because until now is impossible for these women to realize that they need to be careful with their choices and main decisions in life, and especially talking about men. In addition to this, every time you see teenage moms caring their babies, you could notice that they aren't just Latin American girls, they are also from the United States. And let's be honest: having a baby in early times is not just a problem from the third countries. Young women all over the world are having babies despite their critical situation of not having money or not having a good job, because again, they are too young. But most important, they are not longer with the father of that baby they have in their belly, because these men don't want to make an effort in their lives and don't care about nothing.

Generally speaking, you could say that having a baby in early years is almost a disease that has made from the world a place not so safe for children; and why is that? Because giving birth to a little boy or girl who doesn't ask you to be here, and doesn't have the necessary implements for survivable like a good home, with loving parents and a good place to stay etc. All of these things make the life of any child miserable. That baby doesn't have the fault of your mistakes.

You have for example, this TV show called “Teen Mom” on MTV, that shows how you should NOT prepare to be a mom: everything is drama.

However, if any women want to be a mom:

• she has to be prepare to look after a human being;
• she has to be prepare for responsibilities, and more over,
• she needs to see if her partner is a good man and if he could be good dad;
• And please, wait to be at least 25 years old!

Live your life, enjoy yourself, and only when you are satisfied with what you have done with your life, and you need something else, maybe… just maybe would be the perfect time to look for pregnancy.