Crazy world: I don’t want to be in love

When people fall in love, they use to say that everything change in their minds, and in their bodies, and it’s not a surprise, because many doctors (psychologists, psychiatrists, and others) throughout history have studied  the symptoms of that condition and have said that it’s true that the chemistry in your body changes, and your brain changes. But why?

            Your brain let some chemicals play around and these try to make you feel like a fool every time that you see that special person for you. But this article is not about medicine, It’s about how relationships could affect society and family.

            Nowadays everybody says that they don’t want to be in love, because it hurts, because no one believes that love could actually be in theirs lives. Every person has developed a way of thinking about love, and that isn’t most of the time healthy as it should be. Everyone knows that love hurts; everyone knows that love could make you feel crazy; everyone knows that if you fall for a person that could make you feel weak and vulnerable. And nobody wants to be vulnerable in this society of strong and “fierce” people who prefers to be with a hundred of couples than settled down.  

Have you seen “How I met your mother”?

         

Barney and his daughter: pure love

   This  TV program shows how a man live his life looking for a special someone for him, and he’s all the time thinking that he found the one, on every couple he had, but that wasn’t true. However, he wasn’t tired of trying

to find love. On the other hand, you have another character: Barney Stinson, who is the exact opposite, he is a man who loves having many women every week, and even per day. But at the end, he found his true love: his daughter.

            So, in a society in which having affairs, being crazy, having a lot couples, being promiscuous is normal, how could you raised a family with that kind of values? How a child could see his mom or his dad doing whatever they want, without being upset?

            People should care about children; they should look at the bright side of things, and if their heart got broken, well, they only have to be humble and be open for opportunities.