[Henry Jesús Camino Muñoz] Expectations in a relationship

What we should expect from our couples: communication and tolerance

It is said for many people with a deep knowledge about human relationships: the key is to have communication and be tolerant. One of the most popular conclusions that people get to when it comes love is that having a relationship is tough. There are a lot of books that try to help many people around the world through difficult situations, like break-ups, etc. These people use these books to make an effort in finding the single answer that is going to resolve every single problem, mostly regarding to love.  Although, there are some skeptics that don’t buy the promises of this kind of books. The point is that, in reality, nobody has the perfect solution when it refers to human relationships. There are a lot of opinions that say they would be miraculous for everyone that listen to them, however, is it true? If you read them all, it is possible that at leats one of these two things happen: You think about something useful thanks to the readings Or you just felt very confused, maybe more than you ever were. We are going to make it easy for you. In this text, you are going to find some clues that help you to follow your dreams of having a couple or having a real love. The key in every relationship First of all, as you might have read for hundred of times: communication is the biggest and more important key in every relationship. Talking with your partner, with kindness and respect, about the things you don’t like from him or her is going to make you feel better about everything that happens between you two. Also, if you communicate your feelings, and you say all the things you don’t like, you must say the entire goodness in everything she or he does as well. Because isn’t fair that you make such big deals just for his mistakes, or the ways they see the world. Remember, you don’t want to hurt him or her. You just want to make her/him see the details that maybe if that person improves them, it’s almost sure that you’re going to get along very well. Communication and tolerance: both are the key for everything, for being good citizens. But we have to start considering the other person with us and have forgiveness and be comprehensive. Again, remember: Love is all you need.   -Henry Jesús Camino Muñoz